You can do this.
You can have the things you want.
You can decide where you want to go in life, and then do what it takes to get there.
Watch my latest video to hear more about how to accomplish your goals by developing the skill set of mastery, not allowing yourself to be ruled by your emotions, and staying open to new information.
0:01 You can do this
0:07 You can have the things that you want
0:20 In life, the skill set you want to develop is that of mastery
0:45 Doubt and worry are just part of the game
1:05 You don’t have to be ruled by your emotions
1:28 You can decide on where you want to go in life, and then do the work to get there
1:41 You have a great skill: You’re willing to take new information
2:18 I believe in you and I’m here to support you
2:27 I want to hear why you can and when you will
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Why can’t you have the intimacy that you want and the relationship that you want? Why can’t you have the wealth and riches that you want? The answer is you can. In life, the skill set that you want to develop as a person, is the skill set of mastery. And what that is, is the ability to put your attention on something and do it consistently over time. If you pick up an instrument every day for 30 minutes, you’re going to get better at that instrument.
If you put attention on your business and wealth creation, because that’s what this blog is about mostly, over time, consistently, you will get better at it. You can do this, and doubt and worry and lack of self-confidence and not believing in yourself, that’s part of the game. You will experience that. That’s not a bad thing if you experience that, but it doesn’t serve you to put your attention there, to wallow in it. Just let it go. Just say, “Oh, this is some doubt,” or, “This is some fear,” or, “This is some lack of self-confidence. I’m going to recognize that emotion, and I’m going to move forward.”
You don’t have to be ruled by your emotions. You will get reality from society that your emotions will rule you. “Oh, you were so angry so you behaved this way.” No. That’s anger. You felt that anger, you can still choose how to behave in that moment. You’re not ruled by your emotions. You’re not a victim of your emotional state. You can feel emotion, notice it, and then make a decision on how to behave.
You can know where you are in life, and know where you want to go, and then do the work to get there. You have the ability to succeed. There’s no one in your way but yourself, and you’re not even in your way because you’re watching this blog right now, and that’s what shows me that you have what it takes. You’re willing to take new information. This is the skill set and the key for successful people, what they are willing to do is listen to new information. When new information comes along, they don’t say, “Oh, I’m not going to listen to that new information because my old information says otherwise.” They’re willing to objectively take a look at new information and say, “Oh, that makes sense. I’m going to try that out.”
Being open to new ideas and concepts, even if they are conflicting with the ones that you have, is a worthwhile thing to do because it will show you new ways and new possibilities that you didn’t know were out there.
So, you can do this. You’re the right size, you’re the right age, you’re the right shape. There’s nothing wrong with you. I believe in you, I’m here to support you. Thanks for watching Smart Marketer blog. I hope you’ve enjoyed this post. I just wanted to get that out there that, to say look, there’s no reason why you can’t. And I don’t want to hear why you can’t. I want to hear why you can, and when you will. So post in the comments and let me know!